transnational existence

Making a come-back

2011-10-24T16:46:00.004-04:00

So much has happened since I have posted on my blog--
Mostly really great things I have to be grateful for: being engaged to my love, finishing my PhD, and enjoying a new city and new job!

I guess I have a lot of catching up to do. Anyway--I am happy to be alive and kicking! So--if you are still out there waiting for me to post, I am making my come-back...so watch for future posts!

Love and Light..

Dr. Di Di

March Birthdays

2010-03-24T16:33:00.007-04:00

March is a time for celebration! Two of my most favorite people were born in March--Kris and MY MOM! Happy Birthday ladies. You both are such loving people--and I am so very grateful for both of you. You love me for who I am...and I love you both for who you are! Hope you enjoyed your days!!!

Happy Birthday Mike!

2010-02-22T09:32:00.003-05:00

Today is my brother Mike's birthday! Happy Birthday Mike!!

Known as "big mike"--he has always been such a rock within our family. He's always ready to help me fix my car, help with my housing projects, help me figure out what to do when my furnace is not working--you get the idea.

He's been so "BIG" in my life---and I don't take that for granted at all. While he is always there..he's a rock that really cares and loves us all. I am so grateful for him--even if we don't agree all the time. He's my "BIG" brother and I love him a lot.

So thanks Universe for giving me such a wonderful brother!

Happy Birthday Blog

2010-02-15T11:37:00.002-05:00

Happy Birthday Elise, originally uploaded by Alexandra Bill.

Today my blog is 4 years old!

Wow...time has gone by. So many wonderful events have happened...many babies have been born..and some very loved ones have passed. Many good people have entered my life--Vivek for one--and some have moved on to other parts of the world.

All in all....I have so enjoyed blogging about my adventures and I hope to continue (as time permits). Life is so busy---I hope to try and blog more to remind me to stop and be grateful for all that I have.

So "Happy Birthday" blog!

Fun @ Niagara Falls

2010-01-20T16:23:00.006-05:00

Can you have fun at Niagara Falls when it's below Zero? The answer is YES! I really enjoyed hosting Vivek and his parents for a tour of the winter wonderland in Canada... Here are some fun pics of our adventure.

Yes it was cold! But am I ever grateful for this long coat! :)

Pictures from Christmas!

2010-01-13T09:42:00.007-05:00

I so enjoyed spending Christmas with Vivek. He's a wonderful soul. I am very lucky!

I can't believe it took me so long to upload these pictures of our Christmas Eve bash @ Breckenridge... but such is life. :)
Aidy really was excited this year for Santa to come.

The whole gang was at my house--including Vivek's parents. Vivek's mom--Angela was so sweet to prepare a traditional Puerto Rican meal. It was so delicious!

Baby Sage is just so very sweet. She is quiet and takes in everything! And of course..we all just love her so much. It's amazing how much she looks like Joey! We call her LJ..Little Joe :)

We ate and ate and ate. Then we opened our secret Santa gifts...it was really a pleasure to host this year for Christmas Eve. It was my first time and I really enjoyed everyone around my table. I am so very blessed for such a wonderful family, friends and a great partner! Thank you Santa for providing such wonderful people to surround me. I am truly blessed!

Life on the road...

2009-12-14T11:48:00.004-05:00

For those that do not know (and I think by now the majority of you do)...I have been dating a wonderful man in Pittsburgh. I have been spending a bit more time than I imagined driving through southern NYS and Pennsylvania...

Here is a picture that I took while driving (that's probably illegal right?).

As I drove last Saturday, I admired how the sun rose to the left of me and seemed to kiss the white trees.

While I am not a big fan of driving long distances, I have come to enjoy the time in the car--It allows me to think and be grateful!

Grateful for my trusty Subaru, grateful for how snow can come brush us with a clean white coat, cause us to pause, relax a bit and just enjoy (or maybe---aggravate us, depending on your perspective)]...and grateful for all those in my life.

Especially for Vivek. He's a shinning star in my life. He makes me smile when life has gotten the better of me, he listens to me when I need to just tell my story. He's funny, fun, smart, handsome, a wonderful communicator, and importantly-- ready to travel to anywhere in the world (as long as they have nice pillows and sheets :)

He takes care of me in so many wonderful ways- but MOST of all--likes me for who I am. Thank you Honey--for being you and being a wonderful partner.

My cute little niece Emme

2009-10-05T16:25:00.006-04:00

My lack of blogging is just horrible I know. Well, life gets in the way sometimes---however, one of the recent stars in my life is my cute little niece Emme. She's happy (almost all the time)...healthy and full of smiles. She's a wonderful little soul---and I can't wait for her to be more of highlight on my blog.

the growth of understanding follows an ascending spiral rather than a straight line

2009-09-08T13:51:00.002-04:00

. the growth of understanding follows an ascending spiral rather than a straight line ., originally uploaded by beesquare.

I really like this quote...and this picture.

I have been drawn to spirals for a while now---and I think it's because of the subconscious connection with growth. How growth isn't a straight line but a spiral.

I am appreciating my growth and the ascensions and setbacks that comes with it.

And I thank the universe for the little messages that help me continue on the upward path.

5-year-old Di Di

2009-09-02T07:04:00.002-04:00

Yesterday I was reminded of something very important. Become friends with who YOU were when you were 5-years-old....invite that bundle of love and energy back into your life. She/he will help remind you to speak from your heart. To always speak truth--and to just love.

Yes, this cute little girl on my blog is me :)

I am becoming her friend--she has a lot to teach me.

Thank you Caroline for reminding me of her. And..thank you Melis for your guidance as well!

I am Energy and Prosperity!

highlights of summer trips

2009-08-18T06:42:00.017-04:00

This summer has been really fun! I have been lucky enough to take a few short summer trips to visit a wonderful new friend. Here are some highlights from Pittsburgh and Philadelphia.

My friend Vivek took Mike and I to see Frank Lloyd Wright's famous house, Falling Water. It was truly beautiful!

These pictures were taken at Philadelphia's Magic Gardens
Artist Isaiah Zagar--a former Peace Corps volunteer--created this beautiful mosaic garden in S. Philly--creating a community of art. It was by far my favorite part of Philly.

Garden Walk 2009~

2009-07-26T19:42:00.006-04:00

I so enjoyed today's gathering of friends and their extended families over lots of yummie food. It was such a joy to bring together these unique people....
I feel so very lucky to have such wonderful friends with such diverse backgrounds.
It's as beautiful as the flowers we saw today!

I really love these Lillies...they smell so good!

I am always grateful to spend time with Kris.....I am so glad we still have time to enjoy these little joys together :)

Happy Auntie...again :)

2009-07-22T14:19:00.003-04:00

Last Sunday...Joe's girlfriend Annette had her baby. Sage Isadora Hardy is my new little niece. She's was just so precious when we met her the first time. She was just born yet her eyes were wide open! She was ready for the world and all it has to offer her.

We are all so happy for Joe and Annette. I know she will grow up around love, light and happiness. AND YOGA!

Plus...she has tons of other aunties to help her along the way as well...

Welcome Sage. We love you already!

Patience...

2009-07-14T16:36:00.003-04:00

So, for those of you that know me...know I can be on the go all the time. I have a tendency to do so many things per day...it makes most people head spin. And I think mine as well :) Because...I miss some important moments. Maybe I don't miss them, but I am lost in my head--either living in the past or the future.

So...wonderful souls in my life keep reminding me to live in The Present Moment.

Thank you!!! I am grateful for that message---

One person is my Reiki Teacher---who sent out this story in her newsletter. Her name is Caroline and she is really a bright light for us all...

Here is her lesson to remind us all of staying present...

“A Lesson in Patience”

About 20 years ago I experienced one of the biggest patience lessons of my life. I had stopped at the supermarket on my lunch hour, and was happy to find a checkout line with only one other person ahead of me. “I can be out of here in minutes!” I thought… but that is not the way it happened.

I guessed that the woman in front of me was about my age (as close as I could tell from behind) and shewas the slowest moving person ever! One at a time she moved items from her cart to the conveyor belt. She dropped a can, was confused by a question from the cashier, could not seem to find the correct change, etc. All the while my impatience was building as I shifted my weight from one foot to the other. “Why do I ALWAYS pick the wrong line?” I thought, as I looked at my watch again and again. I was going to be late getting back to the office, and it was HER fault! I was really building up steam, looking around at the person behind me with a large sigh and a look on my face that said, “Do you BELIEVE this?”

And then the woman in front of me turned to look at me. One look at her face and I knew that she was very, very ill. “I’m sorry I’m so slow,” she said, “but I just came from my chemo appointment and my brain is a little foggy.” “Oh, that’s O.K.,” I replied, “I’m not in a hurry.”

It is difficult to find the words to explain how I felt at that moment. Twenty years later as I think of that day I can still feel that feeling in the pit of my stomach… shame…embarrassment…self-loathing. Did it really matter that I was going to be a few minutes late compared to what she was going through?

I remember checking out and walking to my car in a kind of daze. I got in and sat behind the steering wheel for a moment, and the tears began to slowly slide down my cheeks. I sent off a prayer and an apology to the woman, and realized that the tears were for me. My eyes had sent daggers of angry impatience into her back, and for what? For a few moments of my time? How sad…

I have thought of that woman so many times through the years when I see other people huffing and impatient about “waiting”, sometimes very vocal about their displeasure. I think of her when I am waiting in other lines, or standing at a red light, or driving behind the slow driver, or any time my patience begins to run thin. And I think to myself, “If this is the worst thing that happens to me this day, life is really, really good.” And I smile in gratitude for the lesson in patience I learned so long ago that helps me today to live calmly in the moment, appreciating, accepting.

The next time you are feeling impatient, take a couple of really deep breaths and relax. It may be a lesson in patience for you, and a reminder to BE in this moment. It really is all we have.

http://www.reikicare.com/newsletter.july09.htm

Helping each other...just sing...

2009-07-10T11:32:00.002-04:00

This song somehow resonates with me...maybe it's that I feel like sometimes I am lucky to have a flashlight through the foggy world we go through. Hopefully I bring that flashlight with me to help others..

This song makes me smile...we can help each other--- just sing:

sing , the last thing on your mind
the last word on your breath
i'll be the one to keep you
i'll keep you at your best
the last thing on your mind
cause i don't need your mess
i'll be the one to keep you
one disaster less

July 4th Fun in D.C.

2009-07-07T09:10:00.008-04:00

This week I am working...really working on my dissertation in Washington D.C. My dearest friend Sofia is hosting me....and allowing me to work in her beautiful building. I am so very grateful for her friendship, her support and her joy for life! It's always fun to spend time with her :)

But...I have been taking a bit of a break and enjoying all that D.C. has to offer. (Including her beautiful pool)...

Here are some pics from our 4th of July adventure. We enjoyed spending time listening to music, watching people and waiting for the fireworks show...

It was a mini-Buffalo reunion!

I so enjoyed watching all the people. I noticed that in many cases there were more international people than your standard "Americans" in the crowd....of course..I just Loved that :)

The Fireworks show was wonderful....I felt so very lucky to have experienced this! :)

A very happy birthday

2009-06-26T16:40:00.002-04:00

Thank you to all those wonderful people in my life that have been wishing me a happy birthday today...it feels great to have so many people wish me well.
I am so very thankful for my friends, family and of course my Mom and Dad--without them I wouldn't be here!

Here is one of my best gifts....Aidy singing :

Introducing Emme..

2009-06-08T17:21:00.004-04:00

My niece, Emme Grace, was born on Friday, May, 29th. She's such a cutie..

congrats doctors....

2009-05-21T12:54:00.003-04:00

There are three doctors in this picture...Dr. Diana Vela, Dr. William Godoy and Dr. Catalina Crespo! We enjoyed some chicken wings @ Duff's. Soon, all three will make their way either across the U.S. or back to S. America.
I will miss our Latin parties...
But, I know the fun has not yet ended....

Old Pictures...

2009-05-13T08:57:00.003-04:00

Today my brother sent me these old pictures! I love it...the first one is of my Dad--fishing.

There are many days I think about him...fonding. I am not sad--of course I wish he was still here with all of us, but I try just remember being with him. And to think about what kind of advice he'd give me..

When we were kids...he use to take us fishing...that was always fun.

One thing I remember about my Dad...that he love to sit and watch nature. Being as busy...impatient and energtic as I am, I thought this was totally borning! Now...I see he was doing his own form of meditiation. I found myself recently sitting and watching my beautiful trees from my house---and enjoying the cycles of nature :)

This is a great picture of Mom. Very Mrs. Brady-like. My sister and I alway tease my Mom that she looked like Mrs. Brady in the 70s.

Hopefully Dave will send me more....these pictures made my day!

happy

2009-05-06T09:37:00.003-04:00

Lotus Flower Reflections - IMG_1724-refl, originally uploaded by Bahman Farzad.

Today I am feeling really happy. I am not sure if it's the combination of the wonderful sunlight we have been having, or that I am doing Yoga more frequently, or if it's because I am feeling more and more peaceful.

Whatever it may be....I am feeling like lotus flower..

And so it is :)

Spring is here

2009-05-05T12:31:00.003-04:00

I am just so happy that things are growing. I love the last week in April/first week in May--bam..there are buds everywhere and leaves grow so very fast.

I am amazed at nature sometimes. Sometimes it seems to take forever to see things grow...and other times, like how leaves return for spring--it happens so fast you forgot what it was like before the leaves where there.

And the cycle begins again.

I find myself more and more interested in these cycles. Maybe I am trying to get in touch with nature. I think it's to align myself more with the beauty and gracefulness that is nature. How peaceful it is for nature to experience the change of seasons.

Hopefully you are reading this now and are feeling peaceful as well :)

A Day in the life @ UB

2009-04-29T11:30:00.001-04:00

This is a cute video produced by Amy in the International Admissions office here at UB. If you watch closely, you will find me :)

Baby Fiona!

2009-04-23T09:34:00.003-04:00

Yesterday I met baby Fiona! All of four days old...she is a happy, healthy Baby. Gail and Randall are both so happy to have this new addition to their family. I can't wait to get to know her better!

Yummie Cozonac...

2009-04-12T15:18:00.005-04:00

Friday I enjoyed a fantastic dinner @ Raj and Ramona's place. They are wonderful hosts and great cooks! Best part of the evening was Ramona's Cozonac. It's a Romanian sweet bread....oh, to remmber the good-ol' days in Romunia!

Her Cozonac was the best I have tasted in a long time...

Oh yeah....the get-together was in honor of Sofia being "home" :)

Then we were off to more sweets at Rita and Ali's....oh man...time for more excercise! Yoga here I come...

Reconnecting with old friends...

2009-04-06T20:47:00.004-04:00

It was such a joy to host a dinner for some of my close friends this past Saturday night...
One of the best things about having my own space is the ability to bring into that space people I really care about and enjoy. These friends have seen me grow since I have moved back to Buffalo--and even though our lives have been going in many directions one thing remains, our good friendship.

This is a sweater I made for Gail's new addition, Fiona. It was designed by crafty friend Rima--and it's called, "Bombay Love".

I am so very happy for Gail and Randall, I can't wait to meet there new little angel!

For Baby Emme

2009-03-31T08:55:00.002-04:00

I finished my first blanket for baby Emme (my niece yet to be born)....
I can't wait for her to come into our family....we are in the need of more women :)

My pressure cooker

2009-03-30T13:53:00.002-04:00

I got a fantastic deal on this pressure cooker @ Macy's this weekend! I am so excited to be able to cook my own beans! NO MORE CANNED BEANS FOR DI! :)

Maybe if you are lucky...you will be invited for dinner at my house to enjoy some tasty dish from my new pressure cooker....

My house :)

2009-03-23T22:38:00.009-04:00

Here are some pics from my house :) It's somewhat of a blank canvas. Here and there I have started to find my style. I have never had such room that required my style talents (which I still have not "found")...
So---I am sure once I know more my aesthetic "theme"...I will be implementing changes.

But, I am so very thankful that I have this bright home--and that I share it with Mike. One of these days I will post pics of his pad too :)

(No secret here, he has the artistic talent I lack, but couldn't knit a scarf to save his life, hehe).

Yes-- I know I need curtains...send me suggestions!

Thanks to my brother Mike who has helped me with so many little things...like putting up my candle holder above my fake fireplace :)

The sun bursts into my dinning room.

I love my pantry!

The kitchen needs help~ Soon....

Happy Birthday Mom!!

2009-03-15T17:44:00.002-04:00

Friday was my Mom's birthday...

This funny picture was taken during her Story Corp interview--- :)

Friday I took her out for a lunch and shopping...Oh and for her first Reiki appt. too! At night we enjoyed a big dinner @ the Pryznosch's...and she got a gift she never thought she would get--A LAPTOP! I am so happy that all of us can give her such a gift.

I am so lucky to have such a wonderful mother. She rarely asks for anything, is always grateful for what she has, and loves us for who we are.
Love you mom! Happy BIRTHDAY!

Maybe only in Buffalo

2009-03-08T22:25:00.006-04:00

Someone who moved to Buffalo from out of town once told me that people in Buffalo spend their weekends going to birthday parties and showers. And...that is exactly how I spent my past weekend. Today I attended Gail's baby shower. I am so happy for her--she will be such a wonderful mother.

To make her baby feel special, I made her this cute sweater. I am still new at knitting, but put my heart into making sure baby Fiona has something special from Auntie Di :)

I was so very happy to host Kris' birthday! She is my best friend...and I am so very lucky to have her and Joe in my life!

Explosion of positive energy

2009-03-04T09:30:00.002-05:00

Explosion of positive energy, originally uploaded by Łukasz Strachanowski.

I thank the universe for providing me with people and life situations which help remind me of something very important.

Always approach problems with a positive attitude and belief that there is a solution. When you dwell on the problem with energy that is focused on pity, lack or fear (which translates into worry), you are only creating more of the problem.

By bringing in light...source energy, one can create healing and promote peace within the self.

I hope I can remember this next time I face a problem... :)

Yes---we will...

2009-02-25T11:39:00.002-05:00

Last night I felt inspired by Obama.

I really think he can lead this nation into a new era....

This song came to my mind today and just made me smile and say, "Yes, we will"

Serendipity

2009-02-19T23:00:00.001-05:00

Serendipity at the Royal Academy, originally uploaded by ^Tom.

Serendipity is the effect by which one accidentally discovers something fortunate, especially while looking for something else entirely.

Thanks to Catalina...I was reminded of this wonderful concept yesterday. One must never take lightly the signs or messages found within everyday life....
It might just take you exactly where you desire....

So watch and listen...and of course...have faith!

Highlights of San Fransisco trip

2009-02-16T13:02:00.008-05:00

I just recently got back from San Fransisco. I so enjoyed spending time with Emre and his mom. They were such wonderful hosts! Emre's mom is an amazing cook!

They are both such bright, happy people...it was a joy to spend time with them.

Mohit joined us for the Alcatraz tour. It was so great to see Dr. Virendra :)

This picture was taken from Alcatraz prision...

This is the craziest street in San Fran...it's called Lombard Street.

We VERY much enjoyed Napa Valley...can you tell?

Umesh's brother got us tickets to see the San Fran open. We saw Pete Sampras play an exhibition game! Reminding me how much I love tennis!!!!

It was really cool to spend time with Umesh and his family. They are such wonderful people....happy and welcoming!

My Second Publication

2009-02-05T12:59:00.004-05:00

Thanks to many!!!!---I have published part of my dissertation proposal in Comparative Minds, Critical Visions, A working paper series in my academic department. Unfortunately, you cannot access my article on-line. But you can purchase a copy (or just come by my house and read my copy :)

Comparative Minds, Critical Visions
Working Paper Series at the Center for Comparative and Global Studies in Education
Volume 3

Yoshiko Nozaki

Editor

Tomoka Toraiwa, Maria Sian Lew, & Rima Aranha
Managing Editors

Gender and Higher Education in Israel

Robert Rood

Challenging Notions of Parity: Gender,
Higher Education, and Labor Force Participation in Argentina
Daniel Velez

Gender, Higher Education and Development:
An Overview of the Philippines Case
Maria Sian Lew

Women and Higher Education in the United States:
A Literature Review
Heather Maldonado

Empowerment through a Sense of Being Cared For:
Graduates' Narrations of the Women's Studies Learning Experience
Tomoka Toraiwa

English Public Libraries from a Neo-Gramscian Perspective:
Social Contexts, Political Alliances, and Compromises
Hiromitsu Inokuchi

Techno-Orientalism and the Images of Japan in National Geographic
Shuzo Kogure and Yoshiko Nozaki

International Students' Identity in the United States: A Literature Review
Diane Hardy

Whose Imagined Community? Locating gender and Nationalism within the Field of Education
Rima Aranha

Mortgage

2009-02-02T14:55:00.002-05:00

Mortgage, originally uploaded by Rev Dan Catt.

Today I made my first Mortgage payment....only hundreds more left :)

Actually--I realize how lucky I am to co-own this house.

Thank you universe!

New band--Fleet Foxes

2009-01-28T15:57:00.001-05:00

I saw this band on SNL two weeks ago. I am still craving their music! Their 70s style harmonization is cool...I enjoy their eclectic nature...it's sorta like me! :)

Hope you enjoy too!

Some highlights from D.C. the week of Obama's Inaguration

2009-01-22T12:18:00.016-05:00

This was one of the most memorial events of my life. Being in D.C. for the inauguration was not just experiencing a great moment in U.S. history-- it was history for me too. One of the first times in my life I felt really proud to be American :)
All I can say is "GO OBAMA"...
AND--THANKS SOFIA (Check out her blog, she has great photos!)

This was from the "We are One" concert---

The day of the inauguration, we stood outside for 6 hours in the lines to get into the parade area. It was cold, but worth it.

People all over were giving out these signs! And when the black hawk helicopter flew over (with Bush inside) the entire crowd cheered!

The line was crazy---but we finally made it in right before Obama came by in his motorcade!

I don't have a picture of Obama, but I did see him!!! Check out my facebook page :)

It was so amazing to hang out with these guys! We sure bonded--- as a result of 6 hours in the cold and the joy of seeing OBAMA!!!!!

Sign of Abundance

2009-01-16T09:51:00.002-05:00

Sign of Abundance, originally uploaded by incurable_hippie.

For the past few months the universe has been blessing me with an abundance of wonderful things.

And--I want to take a moment to be thankful...

First---I share this wonderful new house with Mike. A house that is beautiful, big and healthy :)

Second---I have such wonderful friends (and family) in my life. I am so very thankful that I have people in my life that love me for who I am.

Third--my dissertation is starting to roll again--so many students are responding to my call to be interviewed. And they seem so excited to help me!

Fourth---I believe in the power of abundance. I believe that life has so much to offer--and there are so many opportunities coming my way...to fill my life with wealth, love, happiness, joy etc.

It's a good day!

My New TV

2009-01-12T21:53:00.002-05:00

So here is my new TV. Yes--I took the plunge and bought a LCD, 1080p, blah blah blah....

I didn't realize its power until I went through the channels yesterday---I stumbled on to the HD versions of the channels...OH MY GOSH...it is amazing...and in my living room!

Well---if you are lucky, you will get to come sit on my comfy couch and enjoy the magic too :)

We are on WBFO!

2009-01-07T14:21:00.002-05:00

Today our StoryCorp interview was broadcasted on WBFO! This was the interview that my sister Jen and I did with my Mom.
Check it out: Margurite joined her daughters Diane Hardy and Jen Przynosch at StoryCorps for a frank discussion about her life as a nun.

Holiday Fun

2009-01-02T10:25:00.005-05:00

Some pictures from Christmas....

Enjoying our new house

2008-12-21T22:16:00.004-05:00

This past weekend---I have been enjoying staying home at our new house. Here are some pictures of the winter wonderland around my house...
I am so very lucky & thankful that Mike and I own the house---I am for sure blessed!

UB North Campus - Storm Beginning

2008-12-19T16:59:00.003-05:00

UB North Campus - Storm Beginning, originally uploaded by wbfo887.

Yup...today mother nature coated UB's campus (and the surrounding Buffalo area) in a nice white/icy layer of snow...

But we were not told to stay home---so my little subaru kicked into high gear and got me safely to UB.

Then at 12:14pm we received an e-mail message that said "UB classes and activities are cancelled this afternoon and evening, Dec. 19 as of 12 p.m. Essential employees should report."

This caused me to hmmmmm, didn't classes end like a week ago? And--almost all staff reports at 8:30am?

Then then we got a clarification e-mail....
"Due to confusion created by an earlier email, this email is being sent to clarify that UB is closed effective at noon today, December 19, 2008. Classes and activities are cancelled for this afternoon and evening. Essential employees should report."

Oh...that clarified it completely. Needless to say---we were told we could stay or leave. But if we leave---we have to use to vacation day.
The joys of working for the State of New York...

My life is worth a vacation day :) So...I am home safe enjoying the warmth of my new house...

What I am thankful for...

2008-12-07T18:44:00.004-05:00

I didn't have a chance to blog about thanksgiving this year---
But...I have so many reasons to be thankful this year. I have a wonderful family (the cutest nephew alive), loving friends and soon to be my first house! (pics soon to come....it's not my house yet...we hope to close this coming week!)

omnivore's dilemma

2008-11-13T10:28:00.001-05:00

omnivore's dilemma, originally uploaded by kewlio.

I just started reading this book--- I have a feeling it will change my already thoughtful diet....

Yes, We Can!

2008-11-06T09:51:00.002-05:00

Yes, We Can! Vote Obama!, originally uploaded by R.A.M.O.N.E..

I am still riding high---Obama has been elected the 44th President of the United States. Yesterday, I felt a weight lifted from my shoulders. It has been eight years of horrible policy decisions which left me feeling very shameful about being from this nation.

Today, I feel proud about what "WE THE PEOPLE" can do to make this country and world a more peaceful place.
Yes, WE CAN! And...WE WILL!

OBAMA!!!!!!

2008-11-04T08:38:00.002-05:00

Today I voted for Barack Obama!

I can't remember a day when I felt so excited to cast a vote---I really think this new administration will create positive change for this country.
Incidentally--this pic was taken from my friend Ivan's facebook site--but my vote was identical!

Could you imagine if Obama lost becuase of you?

2008-10-29T16:15:00.001-04:00

acupunture

2008-10-28T12:14:00.002-04:00

acupunture, originally uploaded by WealthyAffiliate.

Yesterday I went to Naturopathic doctor --Dr. Lim--and received my first acupuncture treatment. It was really relaxing---and had detoxifying effects.

I feel very lucky that I can afford to try such a technique to solve my small health problems, and more importantly--to maintain a balanced chi~

I also started a regiment of vitamins---something I have neglected to do for a long time! This Dr. has high quality , inexpensive vitamins---check his website out! http://www.naturalhealthchoices.org

Organic Raw Kombucha

2008-10-22T11:44:00.001-04:00

Organic Raw Kombucha, originally uploaded by Sage Kitamorn.

Mike got me into this drink...it's actually pretty interesting--not sure if I like it or not. It's bubbly and pretty alive in your tummy---so I suggest that you do not drink too much at a time. I don't know if I like it or not....

Here's more info. about it--keep in mind...it's unsubstantiated!

WHAT IS KOMBUCHA TEA?
It is a sweet-sour, fermented, acidic, slightly carbonated beverage, which has been described as either a wine that tastes like a delicious tea or an unusual tea that tastes like a rare wine.

There are claims that Kombucha tea is a "fountain of youth elixir" used in China for thousands of years. It is purported to be a ancient tonic created by growing a so-called Manchurian mushroom on sweetened tea. The history and lore surrounding Kombucha imply an element of magic. Used in China for centuries during sacred rites of atonement, received, passed down, and transported all over the world, there is a ritual and tradition in the telling and the making of Kombucha tea that imbue it with an alchemy of mystery and power. The mystical aspect of Kombucha tends to attract and convert many people in search of perfect health and longevity.

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE HEALTH EFFECTS ATTRIBUTED TO KOMBUCHA TEA?*

* Restores hair color
* Thickens hair
* Dissolves gallstones Increases energy
* Lengthens lifespan
* Arterioscrosis/softens veins
* Speeds healing
* Lowers cholesterol
* Lowers blood pressure
* Increases blood circulation
* Eliminates wrinkles/skin humectant
* Improves menopausal symptoms
* Strengthens leg muscles
* Chickenpox /herpes zoster remedy
* Colitis/improves digestion/ nervous stomach
* Poultice for wounds/ulcers
* Cleanses gallbladder
* Lessens anxiety
* Levels glucose
* Protects teeth from cavities
* Activates glandular system

Enjoying the Farmer's market

2008-10-19T10:06:00.007-04:00

Each Saturday I go to the farmer's market in Buffalo---called the Bidwell Market. I usually meet up with Dawn, or other friends, enjoy a coffee or some yummy food and relish in the best part of Buffalo---a community gathering place.
I am grateful that Buffalo has this wonderful market where people can come together, get some local food and enjoy a sunny fall day.
I have never been a fan of brussel sprouts, but these looked way too good to pass up. Rachel gave me some good tips on how to do more with brussel sprouts than just boil them.....I will let ya all know how it turns out.
Thanks to George---I tried the veggie rolls...they are great!

It was really fun to spend some time with Dawn's friend George! He is such a positive, energetic, bright person. I am excited that he's joining our 'gang'!

Allegany beauty

2008-10-12T11:47:00.007-04:00

As a part of my ISSS job, I sometimes help out and take students on trips around Buffalo. This past Saturday I helped facilitator a tour of Allegany State Park. Along with our wonderful tour guide, Albert, we trekked through 5 miles of beautiful trails and enjoyed the lovely colors of fall. I feel really lucky to have enjoyed such beauty on this usually hot weekend (it was 70 degrees!).

These boulders were amazing!
It was so peaceful to have lunch and meditate after along the lakeside.

My new love, Ontario's wine country

2008-10-08T22:15:00.012-04:00

The beauty of Ontario wine country is really amazing. Of course many of us in Buffalo have been to the trendy "Niagara-on-the-Lake" wineries. It has only been just recently that I have ventured along the Niagara Peninsula to enjoy the wineries in St. Catherines, Jordan, Vineland, and Beamsville (thanks to Kris and Joe--for introducing me to the area!)

It was great that Theresa join our adventure! She is such a fun gale---I forsee lots of fun wine tours in all of our futures! I was glad Mike came along this trip---not only because we got to ride in his new car---but because I love him a lot and I am grateful that I have such a wonderful nephew, roomie and friend! Yes---we loved this wine so much we treated like a baby~

Thirty Bench winery has these wonderful notes that provide great information about the wine, but also a good laugh. Actually---all of us liked this wine. Incidentially---I think it sorta describes ME!

I never get tired of taking pictures of grapes! I think they embody the romance of wine---I guess for me the soul.

Everywhere we went we could see the lake in the distance.

I can't remember the name of this winery---but it was very European---it reminded me of a Swedish house...it was beautiful.

Anticipation

2008-10-05T10:20:00.002-04:00

Anticipation, originally uploaded by steph.A.

Have you ever felt like you are waiting for something to happen? My life in the past few weeks seems to be like this picture. Movement around me and I am standing still.

I bought a house, but there isn't a clear date when it will close. I am ready to start my dissertation research, and I can't start until I get acceptance into my research sites.

I guess that best part is---that even though I am like this little girl watching the ride---I am trying each day to be the "watcher" and enjoy my ride through life.

Enjoying Turkish Music

2008-09-30T22:50:00.002-04:00

Seminario Saida 2007, originally uploaded by yamilebellydance.

Today I was invited to a little Turkish party for the end of Ramadan--and it just so happens that a very good Turkish musician came to Buffalo to play is very beautiful instrument--called a Kanun.

This instruments sounds like a harp but has a crisper sound. The melodies are mesmerizing. I felt like I was under an olive tree with some yummie Turkish food! (well, I obviously wish that was the actual case, but then I opened my eyes).

I find myself very much attracted to this region of the world...I am sure in my past life I lived there....
inshuallah---I go back :)

Maybe our last summer dinner...

2008-09-28T11:00:00.008-04:00

We are so lucky---it's been so nice and warm in Buffalo this September! Last night we enjoyed a wonderful dinner La-Te-Da--a cute little place with a beautiful back porch located around the corner from my new house! We also welcomed home Amresh, Andrew and Kris and Joe~

Sitting around this beautifully lite table---I watched everyone enjoy each others company--and I realized how lucky I am to have such great friends and to be able to share these experiences with them (great conversation, wonderful food and good wine!--all outside). I was thinking---does it get any better?)

After dinner we went to a new place called the Wine Thief....if you can't tell, we enjoyed that as well ~

The VIP treatment at Niagara Grape & Wine festival

2008-09-21T14:10:00.010-04:00

I had a blast this past saturday at Niagara's Grape and Wine festival. Thanks to wine maker Eric--we got a private tour of Konzelmann Estate Winery in Niagara-on-the-lake.

This winery is the only one on the lake---the views are just beautiful (as are the grapes!). I can't remember a time where I enjoyed wine so much! Eric made sure we tasted the wines in the right order-and saved the best for last---yummie ice wine!

Chris and I really loved the oak barrels---

We toured the facilites --always with a enough wine to keep our pallets happy!

I am grateful to have met Eric & John...and of course of Joe Molek's family (who considers me their sister-in-law)!

The day extended to the festival in St. Catherines. We enjoyed the food of the area and lots more of Konzelmann's wine at their booth where we meet up with Martin and his buddies~

Ustrasana (camel pose)

2008-09-18T23:39:00.001-04:00

Ustrasana (camel pose), originally uploaded by Richard-.

Today I successfully did those pose---just like this yoga lady!
--I felt like I really accomplished something!
Besides opening up my rib cage and flexing the spine---it also helps open the throat and heart chakra!

Teaching in Togo?

2008-09-17T16:55:00.002-04:00

2000-02 Togo Tamberma 13, originally uploaded by maounde.

I recently got a not-so serious, possibly serious offer to go teach at a school in Togo...
how cool would that be????

actually--it wouldn't be a full position, just a short-term appointment (like 2 weeks)....but it would be an amazing experience I can imagine...

And---it would be fun to re-connect with a old school pal....

The universe brings me such wonderful opportunities!

the unbearable lightness of being

2008-09-15T12:50:00.001-04:00

the unbearable lightness of being, originally uploaded by /the/science/of/sleep/.

I just started this book--and I have to say I am starting to fall in love with Kundera and the way he tells a love story.

Here is an example of his brilliance...

"In the sunset of dissolution, everything is illuminated by the aura of nostalgia, even the guillotine"....

Kris and Joe's wedding

2008-09-11T23:17:00.008-04:00

This past weekend I was standing up in my best friend's wedding. I have to say--it was probably one of the most joyful weddings I have ever attended. I feel so lucky to have a best friend like Kris...and now even more lucky to include Joe in the mix.
Here are some highlights from the wedding---there are just so many pictures---I am sure my blog will be highlighting this adventure for a while!
Oh--by the way---they met at a Whitney Place party~ Thanks to Di!

The gang

I felt like a princess!

We danced until the weeeee hours---

Mubarak Ramadan

2008-09-03T13:00:00.001-04:00

Sultanahmet~, originally uploaded by EmrahCelal.

Warm wishes for all my Muslim friends this Ramadan season.

I very much respect this month long time of prayer. While I am not Muslim, I find myself attached to the very ideas this season provides...

Here is some information about Ramadan in case you didn't know about it (thanks Wikipedia):

Ramadan is a time to fast for the sake of God, and to offer even more prayer than usual. In Ramadan--Muslims ask forgiveness for past sins, pray for guidance into the future, ask for help in refrain from everyday evils and try to purify themselves through self-restraint and good deeds.

last summer bbq?

2008-09-01T13:03:00.003-04:00

Last night Chip and Elsa (and Catarina) hosted a nice little bbq...
It was so nice to spend time with them---it seems the summer went by so fast--I suppose everyone always says that. Anyway---I am very grateful for such wonderful friends.

glad we adopted a hen

2008-08-24T08:32:00.003-04:00

chickens at blossom hill farm, originally uploaded by didihardy_72.

Thanks to Rachel.......we are the adopted parents of one of these beautiful hens (I think it's the hen who is philosophizing about the sociology of egg-making---but I could be wrong).

I am enjoying her fresh eggs each week. I love knowinng where my food is coming from and I am enjoying buying fresh produce from the Bidwell farmer's market as well.

If you are interested in adopting a chicken next year---check out BlossomHill Farms~

My Mom's story on Story Corp

2008-08-17T09:48:00.006-04:00

Yesterday my sister Jen and I interiewed my Mom on Story Corp--an oral history project sponsored by the Coporation for Public Broadcasting. The project gathers stories of everyday people. The stories are archived into the Library of Congress and--if you have a good story---it is broadcasted on NPR.

My Mom told her story--starting with her decision to become a nun. She told of the joys she had of being a 2nd and 3rd grade teacher and her struggles with her loss of individuality. Her life choices led her to a wonderful guy (my Dad)...and then of course to motherhood.

I won't ruin the story---because we hope it will air on the radio.

Thanks Mom--for telling the world your story--and for being the best Mom anyone could ever ask for! We love you~

Happy Birthday Sofia

2008-08-12T08:28:00.003-04:00

Today is my good friend Sofia's birthday. She is such a wonderful soul--full of passion for her family, friends and her research. She brightens up our lives---with her wonderful cooking--her fantastic stories and her love of life. It was so much fun to have her a part of our Moroccan adventure (above)...and I hope we can share some more travel adventures in the future!

Big hugs to you my friend Sofia.

My cutie nephew Aidan

2008-08-03T22:15:00.004-04:00

WOW is he getting big! I remember at Christmas when Santa got him this bike...he couldn't even reach the peddles! Now...he's riding like a pro.

And...he LOVES this Guitar. I am sure he will be a rock star some day....so people, get his autograph now....

I am so happy & Lucky to be able to watch this energetic guy grow up...he's such a light in all our lives! I love you Aidy!

Highlights from Costa Rica

2008-07-29T08:20:00.019-04:00

This was a fabulous holiday! There are so many pictures to post.
I am so grateful to Catalina and her family for hosting me....I loved the country, people, food (the fruit is SOOOO wonderful), landscape and of course...the coffee!

Catalina's family---and our adventure to a park. Check out the friend we met below!

Our trip through the mountains to the city of Jaco. Catalina's sister's in-laws allowed us to stay in their summer home for the weekend. The view from the pool took my breath away!

You can walk down to a semi-private sandy beach.

Catalina has such a wonderful family!
This is Catalina's dad's tree house! We stayed there for 2 nights. We could hear monkeys at singing to us at night!

Banana's are just growing everywhere....they taste like candy!
mmmmm. did you know how good coconuts are to drink?
This is dragon fruit. As you can see....I was in LOVE with the fruit. Below is the flower that only blooms at night.

Molek-Ramming Shower and PIg Roast

2008-07-15T13:11:00.008-04:00

This was the best wedding shower I have been to! Thanks to Kris and Joe's family---and the Molek wine---fun was had by all :)
Check out some of the pictures.

Mike and Bill couldn't wait for their share~

Joe and his dad brought out the Molek wine!

Best Wishes Joe and Kris!

Do we look happy or what?

Their grapes are still little babies...but they are growing fast!

I was at the shower for 12 hours...and if it wasn't a Sunday night, I think we all would have stayed as long as the home-maid wine was available!

Learning compassion

2008-07-14T10:39:00.002-04:00

Light of Infinite Compassion, originally uploaded by cyanatic.

The universe has been so kind to provide me opportunities to understand and learn about compassion.

My most recent experience has been with people's feelings.

As we travel through life we can hurt someone's feelings--and when we do, that person usually (not always) reacts. This is the opportunity for us to experience compassion.

I have learned to stop, take a deep breath and allow the other person to act out their own drama--and I have learned to not accept their drama as my own.

I have been getting better at this---but of course sometimes it is not easy. Therefore, the universe continues to provide me with opportunities to get better at this.

So I thank the universe--and those friends that provide me with light and understanding on this journey.

David Byrne goes from Talking Heads to singing buildings

2008-07-12T09:02:00.003-04:00

I heard the coolest story on NPR about an art instalation called Playing the Building in NYC--by David Byrne. Many times I have heard my own home singing--whether it be the heat pushing through the pipes or the refrigerator starting it's temperature decent....your house can sing a song all it's own. Now you can go to NYC and make the The Battery Maritime Building sing.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=92470122

Kris' Bachlorette Blast

2008-07-06T09:41:00.011-04:00

This past weekend my adopted, fantastic cousin Caroline hosted Kris and I for a Bachelorette party--and SPA weekend! Oh wow...did we eat well, shop well and enjoy this oasis of a SPA in downtown Toronto.

I am so happy for Kris--she has found a really fantastic guy in Joe--and I am so happy that Caroline and I can be a part of her big moment....

This heavenly place is called Body Blitz Spa. It's so worth the money. I felt transformed after leaving the place :)

Toronto is full of trendy little hide-a-ways that only a local would know about--and not just any local---but our very cool friend/cousin Caroline~ She's is in the "in crowd" for sure.
Not only did this place have a wonderful brunch--it also has probably the best looking waiters in all of Toronto-thanks again Caroline!

This is one of the roof top terraces in Caroline's building--it's a dream space in downtown TO~

Dinner with friends~

The bridesmaids (Caroline & Di) and future bride~
Thanks Caroline for the lovely weekend.

Kudos to Jason

2008-07-04T11:10:00.003-04:00

One of my good friends from high school--Jason Sperling (an extremely talented artist) has been involved in an organization called, Barrel of Monkeys)--this organization really makes a difference for kids in Chicago. Most importantly he has been voted Monkey of the year!

Here is more information about BOM, and how you can you can help them help others!~
"Barrel of Monkeys (BOM) is an arts education theater ensemble that works with some of the most under-served students in Chicago. BOM achieves its mission by teaching fundamental creative writing skills; providing a safe and supportive learning environment; building self-esteem and confidence in children; adapting stories written by children for the stage by professional actors; and presenting a smart, funny theatre experience."

UB is a changin'

2008-06-28T18:44:00.004-04:00

Check out these photos! The trailers at UB are finally coming down...

I love June 26th, It's my BIRTHDAY!

2008-06-26T08:12:00.003-04:00

I have always loved my birthday. Of course as a kid it was all about presents and a party. But now I love my birthday because it is a reminder to myself how lucky I am. I am healthy, happy--smart (heee, does almost having a Ph.D make you smart? not so sure~) and I have a rich-full life. I am so very lucky in so many ways. I have a wonderful family, friends I adore---and this little nephew, Aidan that lights up all our lives.

(One thing I don't have...the ability to say that Turkey is going to the Euro Cup final. Hopefully in 2 years we can say they are going to the World Cup final!)

Oh and most importantly, I wouldn't be here today if it wasn't for my Mom!!! Thanks Mom and Dad :)

EURO CUP2008 - GO TURKEY

2008-06-20T14:52:00.002-04:00

EURO 08 - Vienna FanZone, Day 1, originally uploaded by webguruAT.

Today is the day......My hope is Turkey beats Croatia to move on to the next round in the Euro Cup 2008.

They have the heart and the talent....INSHULLAH..they CAN do it!
GO TURKEY!!!!!

China....

2008-06-18T09:02:00.002-04:00

Last night I watched "Frontline" on PBS. The program was called, "Young & Restless in China" (part 1)....it was a glimpse into the Chinese economic boom and how it is effecting the everyday lives of young Chinese. I thought the show did a fabulous job of talking to those young people who are wrestling with the tensions of old Chinese ways of life, (parents pushing young women to have babies)--while trying to forge and create something new for their booming country.

check it out, you can watch a reply on the PBS website: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/

UEFA Euro 2008-- I have EURO CUP FEVER!

2008-06-12T13:58:00.001-04:00

UEFA Euro 2008, originally uploaded by AdreWine.

Oh wow..it's that time again to get excited about world soccer! I am enjoying the games...and totally torn over what team to root for!
I am so excited for ROMANIA!
Obviously I want them to go all the way....

THEN, I would say TURKEY! Kris and I enjoyed EURO 2000 in Turkey when they made it to the 2nd round~ I hope for them they can make it that far again.

But who do I think will win? I have my money on PORTUGAL!

Stay tuned...
(PS, those reading stateside, you can catch all the games live on ESPN.360).

Happy Birthday Dawn~

2008-06-07T17:45:00.002-04:00

Yesterday it was Dawn's birthday! Happy Birthday Dawn!
She is such a wonderful person...she is always the first one to help others--with a big smile, hug and lots of love~
I am so very grateful she is my friend. She makes a cloudy day---sunny!
Thanks Dawn for being YOU!

Big Hugs!

Dissertation Proposal Defense

2008-06-05T12:10:00.001-04:00

2008-06-05_1148, originally uploaded by Ramona'sFlickr.

It's official....I am going to defend my dissertation proposal on Tuesday, June 10th.

If you are reading this, I ask that you please send me positive energy on that day!

I am so very excited to start this research! More to come...
~Di

PS--Thanks to Mona who sent this cool scanned copy of the e-mail announcing my defense!

Washington DC work and fun

2008-06-01T23:13:00.009-04:00

This past week I was in Washington, D.C. for the NAFSA conference. While I was there for work...of course I played...
And there is no better play-friend than Sofia! We enjoyed the sites and sounds of D.C. as well as wonderful food and old friends. Above is a exhibit promoting renewal energy sources and a greener world.

It was so nice to hang out with Sofia, Kia and his friend. It has been a while since we all hung out and it was a pleasure for sure.
It was one of those dinners where the conversation was so delightful and energizing. It makes me really want to move to D.C. to hang out with these cool friends!

Which one should I choose? They are both so cute!
They were cool pieces of recycled artwork outside the National Geographic building.

The National Gallery of Art hosted this fantastic exhibit, "Afghanistan:Hidden treasurers from the National Museum of Kabul." The exhibit provided treasures from the once Taliban raided Kabul Museum. The treasures date back to hundreds of years before Christ. The treasures provide keys to the stories of travel, trade and migration. The stories of how these treasures are still traveling the world is as exciting as the exhibit.

Just Breath

2008-05-19T17:41:00.001-04:00

você quer a boa vida?, originally uploaded by eef..

This past weekend my sister and I took a class about breathing to maintain health. It was a fantastic Saturday....I learned many techniques~

I started to realize how much I hold my breath, or take just sallow breaths. We learned that this inhibits health--creates an unbalance or blockage within the body .

We gained fantastic techniques to just breath in order to help metabolize food, relax the body, ground oneself and create balance.

Of course this is a wonderful part of yoga and or meditation---but also something I hope to incorporate all day long~

So...if you are reading now and you had a long day....take a deep breath and just see how you feel....I bet you feel better than you did before you took that deep breath.

Emre's good-bye dinner

2008-05-13T22:49:00.003-04:00

We had a really fun dinner last night at Ellen's house in honor of Emre. He is leaving the ISSS family and moving to sunny California. Oh I will miss him dearly~

I am greatful that I got to spend time with him and his Mom before he leaves. She is such a beautiful soul........her positive energy shines through in any language.

She read my future in the bottom of a coffee mug (a very cool Turkish custom) and told me I will come into lots of money soon, buy a house and..
(some things are better left for the future)...

2008 Graduates!

2008-05-11T12:03:00.005-04:00

Today I was so proud of my friends, Sofia, Mohit, Murtuza and Emre....They are a part of the graduating class of 2008.
They are all so smart, and full of potential.

These wonderful people are moving all over the country--like birds they are soaring to wonderful heights. I am getting use to friends leaving Buffalo---- but it makes me happy to think that all of us can look back with fond memories...
And, that we WILL stay in touch and meet up......in Buffalo, DC or SanFran....

The Visitor

2008-05-04T18:07:00.002-04:00

Last night I saw a touching film called "The Visitor". It was hard not to fall in love with all of the characters--- I fell in love with their beauty as well as their imperfections. I believe this story provides us with a starting point to think about the ways in which we view immigration rules and regulations as well as how we treat each other as human beings.

I think this is a film you should not miss!
It's playing at the Amherst theater now...check it out~

Thank you Pennsylvania~

2008-04-27T20:28:00.012-04:00

I had an absolute fantastic weekend with some of my best friends...Amresh, Sofia and Ali. We all meet at Amresh's new Pennsylvania city, Selinsgrove, AKA, Springgrove. He was such a wonderful host!

This area of the country is so alive with spring...as these pictures demonstrate. I feel so lucky to have such great friends--they make me laugh and I so enjoy their company. I can't wait for our next adventure....Camping this summer!

Saturday night we enjoyed Harrisburg, PA, the state's capital...and also best place for great Indian food. mmmmmmmmmm.
Amresh was such a great host....we so enjoyed this arts festival.
of course I couldn't afford this beautiful yarn, but I couldn't resist hanging out thinking about what I could make with this locally died yarn.

The blossoms on the trees were so pretty!
We enjoyed yummie food at a local arts festival.
Amresh is a professor at Susquehanna University. It is a beautiful campus...similar to where I went for undergraduate studies (St. Bonaventure)... We enjoyed walking around. This is Dr. Kumar's office...so cool eh!

the joy of twins,...

2008-04-18T16:23:00.001-04:00

One of my best friends' Jeff and Maria had twins just 5 weeks ago. Abigal and Michael...both born 6 lbs! They are happy and healthy.... Yesterday I went to visit their very lively house (they also have a 18-month-old)!
I am so happy for them....they are weathering this rocky time with lots of love (and great gifts of babysitting!) from family and friends.

I made them two little hats..(of course I forgot to take a picture)....I hope to make them more little goodies in the future....

The best thing about teaching...

2008-04-13T12:23:00.002-04:00

Ready for Lecture? (Version 2), originally uploaded by wbelac.

Yesterday I got the most wonderful message from a former student at Daemen...

She told me that she developed a project to help teachers in the Ukraine (teach about ways to raise awareness about human trafficking in high schools) and it is based largely on what she learned at Daemen, specifically through the development of her research proposal!!!! (The class I taught)

I felt so good that the work in the class not only inspired her to do this much needed work, but also inspired her to apply for a PhD program in Toronto (and she was accepted!)

I am so happy for her and I am sure she will continue to make a difference in the world. I am also greatful that I have had the opportunity to help her fulfill her dreams...

Unaccustomed Earth by Jhumpa Lahiri

2008-04-10T09:33:00.002-04:00

Unaccustomed Earth by Jhumpa Lahiri, originally uploaded by asfrederick.

I just heard about Jhumpa Lahiri's new book, "Unaccustomed Earth". She is one of my favorite writers...her writing provides poetic stories of those making their home outside their birth nation. Her writing draws me in and I seem to fall in love with the characters as they negotiate their identity...

If you want to hear her read from her book, and talk about her writing...check out this NPR story: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=89461076

I can't wait to read this one!!!

Hurray for a brand new tennis season!

2008-04-07T09:48:00.001-04:00

Hurray for a brand new tennis season!, originally uploaded by dasha.

Yesterday Silas, Umesh and and I played our first tennis of the season....and it felt REALLY good!

Now..I need to recruit more players to play this summer...so...if you are tennis fan...get that racket re-strung and join us on the courts~~

I need help being a movie critic

2008-04-04T09:59:00.007-04:00

One of my jobs is to help our International Education Week committee decide on a film for our "culture in motion" film series. It is one of the BEST parts of my job!

However, what I find difficult---is being as harsh as let's say Kenneth Turan, the L.A. Times movie reviewer. He is a seasoned reviewer and seems to find a movie's flaws effortlessly! Being the optimist I am...I usually see a metaphor or bright light as well as possible flaws like sterotyping etc.

So here is a film I watched last night. Maybe you out there in Blogville will watch it and send me your thoughts.

The Situation (2006)

I liked the film, even with its flaws (specifically with the character Anna [the reporter]). I think its attempt at providing insight into the next-to-impossible situation in Iraq is heroic, but leaves the viewer feeling unsatisfied. Maybe that's the point?

I think an insightful reviewer, Andy Slabaugh, put it very well, "Perhaps we ought to ask ourselves whether it is the obligation of art and artists to depict the awful ugliness spread at home and abroad by our fumbling leaders, or if it might be preferable to revel in works of beauty such that we might rise above our pitiful moment?"

What do you think?

Trimania

2008-03-30T12:11:00.010-04:00

Last night a bunch of us enjoyed the sights and sounds of Trimania...
Trimania was a wonderful Buffalo event to hightlight artists in the Tri-Main building. In addition, bands and local dancing acts showed off their stuff---we witnessed everything from Tango to Bhangra dancing. In fact, my new favorite Bhangra DJ was there, DJ Rekha
Thanks to Ashish who got me her CD for Christmas last year....I knew she was a fantastic DJ....

Most of the crowd probably never enjoyed this music before....so it was pretty cool to see people embrace this music.

Who would have thought, you can make art out of those old red plastic cups!

Isn't he cute? He flirted with me...we might go out for coffee this week :)

A fusion band.....cool sound....

If you didn't make it to Triamania this year....you will have to wait a few more years for the next event~

And....I'm Back

2008-03-24T12:28:00.012-04:00

Wow, it has been a while since I last blogged. No real reason outside of being busy with school.
Last week I went to a conference for school (CIES) in New York City. It was a very profitable conference academically, but the best part was hanging out with all my friends in one of my favorite cities. New York City makes you feel alive. And thanks to my friends for making the experience also a way for us to connect again.
Enjoy the pictures...

Nothing like entertainment when you are waiting for the subway~

Yes, it was cold!!!

The CIES crew (plus Sofia)....

Sofia, Rachel and I fell in love with this gem of NYC- Zabar's! While Wegman's has tons of imported foods, Zabar's had even more, plus that NYC feel. A trip for me must include my beloved Olives~

We went to a yummie Spanish restaurant for dinner. Thanks to Rima's suggestion. She was suppose to join us but her jet lag took over. We missed her...here's some of the yummie tapas we had!

Sofia, Amresh and I enjoyed tons of laughs at Gotham, NYC's cool Comedy club.

My last day was spent with a wonderful Sunday walk down Broadway to Central Park....Sofia Amresh and I said good-byes as we went out separate ways back to Buffalo, DC and Harrisburg...
I miss all these guys, but I can't wait for our next "mini gang" reunion....

Happy Birthday MOM

2008-03-13T13:29:00.003-04:00

Today is my Mom's Birthday. I thank the universe for having such a wonderful soul as my mother...she is kind, caring, loving and would do almost anything for all us kids. Through her example...we have become caring individuals ourselves...
Thanks Mom...for all you do for us!
We love you!

DISKO PARTIZANI

2008-03-11T16:40:00.004-04:00

Check out this cool song~! It's a hit in Europe...and filmed in one of my favorite cities- Istanbul!
I heard about this cool Balkan artist from Emre...my Turkish office buddy...

Thoughts from Mike...

2008-03-10T10:51:00.001-04:00

Preghiere al vento per la Birmania e tutti i popoli oppressi., originally uploaded by ornellab..

Rather than muscle through your day, take a moment and breath.

Personal growth is a winding path. Expect to revisit the same issues- and the same mistakes.

Empower your decisions and your self-esteem by learning to say no.

Tune into your sense of smell. It connects you to your emotions and your health.

Surrender isn't about giving up. It's about letting go.

Listen to your body; It knows what it needs most.

Balance self-improvement with self-acceptance.

Invest in your work-space. Inspiration and fresh ideas bloom in a positive atmosphere.

Use your vacation as an opportunity to engage your creative side.

Anger is a voice of the soul. Express it, explore it, let it be heard.

Happy Birthday to my best friend Kris~

2008-03-07T08:56:00.008-05:00

Today is Kris' birthday. She is such a wonderful soul....and I am so happy to say she is my best friend! We have shared so many fun moments together....and we continue to share love and laughter as we travel through life together...

Here are some pictures of us in India...I am so happy Kris and I traveled there together...it's something I will tell our grand kids about some day :)
Kris and I tried every sweet the shop sold....and yes...we had a tummy ache after :)
The wedding~!
Kris and laughed so hard when these guys at the market insisted that we have a vibrating brush.

Much Love Kris~

Forced to go to the GYM

2008-03-06T11:04:00.001-05:00

Antarctica Gym MV Discovery, originally uploaded by Dave Curtis.

Today I was forced to go to the gym (I wish the view was this pretty)...
Why you ask, because our wonderful hot water tank died.....and I needed the shower facilities...
so either I was one smelly ISSS lady, or a toned one....I picked the later.....

~AKA Dirty Di